Originally Posted by
Texdrumr
I don't read any arrogance from you.
From reading your post, it sounds like y'all are on opposite ends of the spectrum in terms of what being in a band means. Some people like the idea of being in band, yet have no interest in committing to working on their craft/songs, outside of band practice.
I don't know how old you are or what your tolerance level is, so take this with a grain of salt. I would have a very respectful yet candid conversation with them. Tell them what you are seeing and that taking a gig when y'all aren't completely ready does nothing but hurt your band in the future. Trust me...word gets around town about bands - professionalism, quality of play, how much they drink, the size of crowds they draw, etc. If they get pissed or show egos, run away quickly. The trick is to be respectful so you aren't inviting a defensiveness just by the topic of conversation. You never know, they may completely own up to it and get serious.
Tex
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