Re: Son has lost the love
My son started playing piano when he was about 5 years old. His mom pushed him every day to play for 15-20 minutes. He went to two lessons per week and really had a great "feel" for it after a couple of years. I always felt that she pushed him too much, too soon. At about 9 years old, he was playing music that no other kid in his group was able to play and it was amazing to watch him and listen to the way he played. I loved it, but felt that the end was near as the fire just wasn't there for him. When he was 10, he wouldn't even touch a piano anymore.
He started playing the clarinet in 6th grade and picked that instrument up very quickly, but soon became bored with it as well. He now plays a flute and is 1st chair in his freshman high school band. Once in a while he will sit down at the piano and easily play wonderfully.
I guess the point to my story is to just let him be a kid. You gave him quite an early and lengthy education that he will have forever. Maybe it's time to throw a guitar or saxophone in his hands and let him try that. I think that as long as kids get some form of musical education, they will become much more well rounded than their non-musical friends. Who knows, maybe after trying a few other challenges he just might come full circle and jump back on the drums. Sometimes we, as parents, try to guide our kids into doing something that we think they will enjoy. We lose sight of the fact that this is really their decision. It empowers them and they like that feeling (especially when we have to yell at them about dang near everything else under the sun. ) Give him some options, and keep an open mind. It will all work out.
PDP MX Series Drums, Zildjian A Custom cymbals, Tama Simon Phillips Gladiator Signature snare, Roc-N-Soc throne.
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