Re: Sitting in etiquette - opinions wanted
Totally bad form for the guy to ask to sit in IMO. You have to ask the question of what drives someone to even think that it's ok to do that - it's not his gig, it's your gig. I would have told him no and that it is band policy that you don't allow sit-ins.
Now, having said that, in the 10 years I gigged with the wedding band, we had a couple of people take the stage on behalf of the bride and groom who specifically requested it - usually someone singing a specific song (one night this drunk buffoon got up on stage and totally butchered "Brown Eyed Girl" which was one of my songs) but only once did we have a guy sit in on drums - again, at the special request of the bride and groom. In this case, the guy was actually doing sessions in/around Nashville - this cat could play. I can't think of his name off the top of my head - if I remember, I'll come back and post it.
Otherwise, for some guy to just walk up in a club or bar and ask to sit in....man, that's pretty tacky IMO.
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